Cruising Like Royalty And Choosing The Right Fork

Cruising Like Royalty
God decided in advance
to adopt us into his own family
by bringing us to himself
through Jesus Christ.
This is what he wanted to do,
and it gave him great pleasure.
~Ephesians 1:5 NLT

Adjusting to life back home was rough after sailing on the Royal Caribbean Cruise Lines.

I mean, where else can you just leave your dishes for someone else to clean up… unless you’re a toddler, teenager or spoiled spouse?  Traveling on the cruise made me feel like I was part of the royal family and no time more than when at suppertime. As a girl who grew up at the racetrack, a table set for fine-dining can be a little intimidating. All those forks and knives used to overwhelm me but now I love it!

MICHELLE ON CRUISEHere’s a little word-to-the-wise from Michelle, one of the nicest cruise officials you could ever meet to help you look like a fine-dining pro:

When eating from a table set for fine-dining: start from the outside and work your way in; one fork and knife set for salad or appetizers, the second set for your entrée, a small knife is for buttering your bread, a big spoon on top is there when you’re being served soup and don’t forget to leave the small cutlery on top for dessert.


Cruising Like Royalty

On our last full-day on the cruise, I woke up thankful for all the wonderful meals we’d had and how amazing the staff made us feel like family… family going from one banquet to another that is! As I laid in bed thinking about this privilege I was blessed to experience, I began to think about the day when I’ll really get to eat like royalty.

Your Royal Inheritance

The truth is; if you’ve received Christ as your savior, you ARE royalty!

Our verse this week is seriously one of the best verses in the Bible. It’s almost hard to believe. God chose to adopt you. No one forced Him into it. He picked you out and invited you to be a part of His royal family! {STOP} Let that sink in a little… no, let it sink in a lot.

On the second to last night of our cruise, we watched the movie, Instant Family, with a backdrop of the Atlantic Ocean. The movie’s based on a true story of how a couple without any children (Mark Wahlberg and Rose Byrne) adopt three kids from Foster Care, sharing with them all the rights and privileges being a member of their family affords: a beautiful home, new clothes, delicious, nutritious food, and most importantly, unconditional love and acceptance.

Being adopted into God’s family changes your status and grants you, all the rights and privileges of being a child of The King. The crazy part is how simply by receiving Christ into your life makes you a member. No tricks, no gimmicks, it’s a basic fact of joining the family of believers.

The truth that I am a member of the real royal family still blows me away! No other monarchy has at the head, the King of Kings. I’m so undeserving and yet somehow completely worthy because of Christ in my life… and you can be too!

The Invitation

One night at dinner on the cruise, my mother-in-law Bevie told us about a story she read from Guideposts Magazine here a woman was planning her funeral with her pastor and asked to be buried with a fork in her right hand. She said,

I always remember that when the dishes of the main course were being cleared, someone would inevitably lean over and say, ‘Keep your fork.’ It was my favorite part because I knew that something better was coming…like velvety chocolate cake or deep-dish apple pie. Something wonderful, and with substance!”

So, I just want people to see me there in that casket with a fork in my hand and I want them to wonder “What’s with the fork?” Then I want you to tell them: “Keep your fork ..the best is yet to come.”1

You’re all invited to join Christ’s family and one day attend the greatest banquet that will ever be served2.  The best is yet to come. So, take the right fork and use it to pick up the blessing God’s offering you!


Father… Thank You for sending Your son Jesus to come and die for my sins to make me a part of Your family.  Your love, acceptance, and blessings overwhelm me.  I receive the inheritance You have for me and not miss out on all You’ve prepared for me because I don’t feel deserving.  Let my confidence come from my place in Your kingdom, as Your child.  I am a part… I am welcome… I am accepted… I am loved.  In Jesus Name…Amen

More than anything, I want to see you at the great banquet table talked about in the Bible.
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Drawing From The Well

  1. Ephesians 1:5
  2. Isaiah 25:6
  3. Revelations 19:9
  4. Revelations 3:20


  2. Luke 14:16-24Ref — Mt 22:2-14; Revelations 19:6-10, Revelations 3:20; Galatians 3:6-9; Isaiah 25:6


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  1. Michele Morin says

    I love how you sink deep roots into good theology even in a post about a great vacation!
    Blessings to you, and may you always find a way to follow the trail back to beautiful truth in your writing and teaching!

    • Sherry Stahl says

      You’re so encouraging! I really do see God and Scripture in all I do. Good to know I’m not taking it too far 🙂 This is one blog post that I’ve felt the most passionate about. It really did hit me about being in THE Royal Family.
      Love you,

  2. Laurie says

    Welcome back from being pampered 24/7, Sherry! The verse from Ephesians is one of my favorites. I often read it when I am down or just need a little pick-me-up. I love your MIL’s thoughts – the best is yet to come! 🙂

    • Sherry Stahl says

      My mother-in-law is amazing! Have a great day!

  3. Boma says

    So thankful for grace that brought us into God’s family. And the lady that wanted to be buried with a fork was right; eyes have not seen, ears have not heard, and it has not entered into the heart of man, what God has prepared for us…. The best is yet to come! Thanks so much for this reminder, Sherry. Many blessings to you!

    • Sherry Stahl says

      Boma I couldn’t agree with you more! Many blessings to you too!

  4. Lois Flowers says

    Sherry, I’ve never been on a cruise, but I am an adoptive mom so I can relate a bit on that level. 🙂 I love how you pointed out all the “right and privileges” that come to us when we join God’s family. We’re completely undeserving of every one, and yet our heavenly Father delights to give them to us because He loves us so much. The story of the lady and the fork made me smile too … the best IS yet to come!

    • Sherry Stahl says

      Lois, I didn’t know that about you, so amazing! You understand adoption on a whole new level! Have a blessed day!

  5. Joanne Viola says

    We have very much enjoyed our cruise vacations. I loved the truths this vacation brought to you as this is the way God often teaches me as well – connecting Scriptures through the ordinary each day. Thank you for reminding me to look out for His lesson today. Blessings!

    • Sherry Stahl says

      Joanne I’m with ya… nothing fancy just God in the everyday! Have a blessed week!

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